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writes:About two weeks ago i met this girl in a club, chatted with her for about 1hr till the club closed and got her number. Anyways i found out that she liked me and wanted to go on a date with me. i called her after two days and went on a date with her, we went to a restaurant and then had some ice cream. basically we talked and she seemed attracted to me, i decided not to kiss her since it was the 1st date, anyway everything was cool.The next day we txted almost all day while i was working (she was off) and we agreed to meet up right after i got out of work. So i drove to her house picked her up in my car and drove around just talking about stuff, everything was cool she flirted with me constantly and liked every complement i made and gave me really good signs that she was attracted to me. so while stopped i leaned over and kissed her it was really great, we both enjoyed it, we kissed for like 10 min , and then for some odd reason she said OK STOP! and thats exactly what i did, i stopped but remained positive. I told her that her lips were really nice and i loved it when i kissed her. thats when she started saying that im coming on too strong and that she is not sure about me...so whatever, we talked for some more and then she wanted to go home so i dropped her off and then idk why i sent her a txt saying goodnight and sweet dreams! she sent me the same thing back! i have not txted her since then and she has not either...I didnt impose a relationship on her or anything like that, i didnt talk about my feelings and i gave her space while trying to get to know her.Ok, first of all, did i do anything wrong? I think she really liked me. Why would a girl say that right away? Wtf am i missing????
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your thoughts everyone, you're very helpful!!! I appreciate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): It doesn't sound like to me that you did anything wrong!!! Heck, I'd go on a date with you! hahaha I don't know why she reacted like that, there are many possible reasons, maybe she just got out of a relationship and is scared of getting into another one right away, maybe it's not what she is looking for, maybe she had a bad experience....and the list continues. I would say, if you really want to know, email her or text her and ask if you've done something wrong and that if you have your're sorry. I think you have a right to know, this is how we learn right? Anyways, good luck, and if she doesn't get back to your email/text, let it go....life's too short for that crap!
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