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writes: I'm really in need of help my head is so messed up. i posted a few days ago about my bf using my age as an excuse to break up with me, even though i was convinced there was more to it than that. i haven't spoken to him since the night we broke up, but i wanted to talk some stuff over with him so i've been waiting for him to come online so i can talk to him casually about what went wrong and what we can do to sort things out. when he did come online, i noticed he had changed his username to something that matched the username of my friends username. alarm bells went off in my head, as i realised what had happened. when we were together he had actually told me that he was attracted to my friend Emma, and in the days leading up to our break up they were spending a lot of time together 'as friends'. am i reading too deeply into things? i was going to ask him about it, but as soon as i came online he signed out. in september his girlfriend dumped him for his mate, so maybe he didn't tell me about Emma because he felt guilty? because he knows what it's like to be on the recieving end of this pain and he knows how much it hurts. was he trying to protect me or was he just looking for a cowards way out? he said we shoul stay friends but i'm not sure if i'm able to anymore. please help me sort out what is going on in my head.
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reader, omgaya +, writes (21 January 2006):
yo!i understand your prob. or i think i do.let go sister. u never can get a lover/friend by force.if he truely loves u he will come looking for u.in the mean time get ready for the love of your life. do fitness and pamper your self.wish u a crack love life,omgaya
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reader, Angel Underneath +, writes (21 January 2006):
Sounds like he was trying to avoid hurting you too much. Hold your head up high and move on x
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