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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:We had our first date..now what?It went well (from my standpoint) and I enjoyed it! We had talked a lot before the date and both expressed a big interest in each other before the date. We both said that after the date we would discuss where we wanted to take things.For part of the date, he took me to meet his family. At the end of the date he didn't say "We need to do this again" or anything of that nature, but he did give me a hug. This was all Saturday. Yesterday he called me but I missed the call and had to return it about an hour later.. he wasn't very talkative and just said he was really tired. I asked him if he wanted me to let him go and he said yes but he'd call me back after he took a nap.. Well.. I never heard back.Is this a sign that he isn't as interested after our date now? He used to be very talkative and isn't now. He's been busy but I just think it's a bit odd. I texted him last night and asked him about this but he has yet to respond. I just think it's weird that we used to talk soo much and now (esp after a first date now) he isn't saying much.Did he loose interest? Why would he even bother calling today if he did loose interest? Any thoughts?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2009):
Well it's a little early to tell. However, I have the suspicion that when he took you to meet his family, he was looking for their approval and didn't get it. Give him a few more days, and if he hasn't contacted you, forget him and find a guy who isn't too tired to actually talk to you (which is a really lame excuse by the way). Good luck.
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