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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Jenny, marry and still not togehther. Can someone please tell me what they make of this Back in my country (in the caribbean) there was a boy way much younger then me, who swear one day i would be his wife, me and everyone else laught and found it cute. A few years letter at age 23, i left the country and his family and my kept as always in touch and very close. Whenever i called my family if he was near by he would grab the phone and tell me i am groun up and keeping myself for u. I kept on no taking it seriously until afew more yrs letter me 35 and him about 24 yrs old, his dad and him called me to ask for my hand in matrimony, his dad said he wants grand children and unless is with me the boy refuse to get marry. The dad begged me to just give it a try. As a woman with a series of bad luck in love i thought he may be for real and did no promess love but just to try.He waited 4 yrs before i was able to put aplain ticket together to go and see him but i always called him and the las two yrs we both had a computer and used to talk and use our imagination but some hoe before i went he met a working girl who would ask him for money and he would ask me to send it and they made love in a way that to me showed more desparation then love, like in the back yard or behind a house (neighbours told me) and he when i ask him he told me yes is true, today i she is movin in with me. I just wish him good luck and even talked nice to the girl.2 weeks latter she slep with his best friend on his oun bed, he then went with a few other girls and withing 4 months he was back to me ( whom he has not seen in many years and had never touched) asking me for forgiveness and desparate. I set up a few respect rules he agreed and i was supposed to flight to see him 3 months later. I didn't even had the chance to buy my ticket before finding out that he was with her again, he denied but i know it was true. She send me a mesage saying that i was no going to keep her man. I talk with him he in front of my family he told her that she needed to go, that he had made a mistake and that he only and always loved me. Than he ask me for marriage i made him wait another yrs before going to see him and finally went i we were together for two months and got married. Now we have been waiting on immigration for almost 9 months (we have only seen each other on MSN) but i found out that he had a lot of females friend on msn and was very extra friendly with a couple of them. He said it was just been nice but that if i see it like that he would cut it out and it seem that he did. Now is been 6 months after that and he talks very romantic and seems uncious to came and to have a baby, he also tells about him that he feels more mature now and that he is not even into masturbating as often as he used to. I know he was yung and still is but my question is could he go back into hurt me again and have other girs or was it part of been under 25. Is him truly a changed man now? what do you think.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (4 August 2008):
 I don't think it has anything to do with age. It his characteristic and personality. It seems like you guys really don't spend quality time together enough to really know each other. You should not have took him back after he cheated on you with the other girl. I believe he is immature and it's quite possible he could hurt you again. Best of Luck.
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