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writes: My boyfriend I know liked his best friend for 3 years and all the time stayed at her house. He started ditching me and staying the night with her and getting late phone calls from her. His eyes are constantly roaming and he seems to only want oral sex and doesnt appreciate my body. He flirts with other women and has even cheated before. He lies a lot and continued to stay with this girl and lied to me about another "friend" who was a female. If he was lying and staying at her house and treating her WAY better than me, does that mean he cheated with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your advice. That is totally true. It's so hard to get out of though because I love him. I'm glad you can be honest and so nice about it. I think I am just gonna stay away from him and not worry about a man for right now. Thanks again!:)
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (16 March 2006):
 First off honey, why would you want a guy like this? He cheated on you and treats other women better than you. I'm pretty sure you can do so much better than to settle with just this guy. He don't seem worth the attention.
But let's answer your questions. If he has to lie to you about his "female" friend, what does he have to hide. They don't lie unless there's something to hide, which I think is exactly what he's doing. He may not have had sexual contact with her, but he's cheating with her emotionally. You don't neither one of these to happen in a relationship.
You don't need someone that doesn't appreciate your body. You boyfriend, of all people, is supposed to appreciate every part of you, especially your body.
I think you should just get out of this relationship and let him be doing what he's doing, but at least you're out of it and not getting lied to anymore.
Good Luck sweetie!
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