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writes:Okay I need help understanding this! I am a 48 year old female who told a 55 year old unhappily married female that my feelings for her went deeper than just friendship. She denies feeling the same way but based on many things she has said to me and the fact that she flew 1300 miles to spend a week with me I am convinced she feels the same way. I just received an email from her and she wrote the following:"I remember the lake and the pretty rock!!! Then I miss ya toooooooooooooooooo much!!!!!I really wish I would win the lotto! My life and yours would change!!!!!!HMMMMMMMMMMMM????? For the better!"Isn't that an odd statement from someone who claims to be just a best friend??? Your opinions are appreciated.Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): I do think her email was strange, it could be though that she is just needing a close friend to take up for some of the lack of intimacy in her marriage, not that she is interested in an affair with you.By the way, just because you are two females and you have romantic feelings for her, it does not make it acceptable for you to interfere in her marriage by trying to develop something that may or may not be there.Respect her boundaries, she is married, leave her and her family alone. If you want to be a friend then that is what you need to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): Not necessarily - I think that you're reading too much into this - seeing what you want to see. You need to listen to what your friend says ands give her the respect to appreciate that she is telling you the truth.
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