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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together now for about 5 months and things seemed to have gone downhill because of my depression. We both get agitated and start getting attitudes with each other. Every relationship I have been in has taken a turn for the worse because of this, what can I do to make sure this relationship doesnt end in disaster? Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (8 May 2006):
 You should really try to sort out your depression for your sake, rather than for anyone else. It sounds like a long term condition for you and there are lots of different types of therapies (medication and counselling) that can help you. If your boyfriend is also suffering from depression then you both should seek help from a doctor - you may find that with treatment that you both start relating to each other a lot better. After all there must have been a good time in your relationship and you must both focus on getting back there. Don't feel bad about being depressed and telling a professional about it - depression affects lots of adults and is absolutely nothing to feel ashamed about. Ask for help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006): I speak with experience when I say that depression will kill a relationship. It's good that you can see your depressed, many don't... until it's too late.
You need to address what is making you depressed. Is it your past, is it life situations? Can you change this yourself, or do you need more help. There are plenty of options you can take. You can try and tackle this yourself, or you can seek medical advice from your doctor. Or you can seek counseling from a professional. If you live in the UK and want to know more information about medical advice or counseling options please respond to this and I'll be happy to advice more. Good luck with everything.
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