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writes:The thing is am in college.. am going out with two girls.. both girls are nice to me.. and one girl most of the time talks about sex while other girl is quiet.. she talks me about why she likes me and tell her friends I'm a good friend of her.. but now a days the other girl who talk about sex is going with some other friend, so in this case i need help.. man, please give me a clue.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): if this girl who's always talking about sex is going off with some other guy, have you considers she's lost interest in you and if she's mainly concerned about sex she probably is quite fickle and not bothered about building strong, committed relationships and friendships. Basically if she's finding some other guy attractive it's obvious she aint gonna be that interested in you n e more believe me. My advice don't pin too many hopes on this girl try and end it find someone else like her if you must but she could easily turn round and dump you in a flash n you'll be left feeling like an idiot, if you want to avoid humiliation.
As for the quiet girl, she's more likely to be hurt by you you know what sort of relationship you have with this girl, you need to decide which relationship you want at this stage you don't need to keep leading her on.
Just decide you can't have both you must face up to priciples and think about others, just do what you have to do! gd luck
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reader, hopeless_teen_  +, writes (23 January 2007):
well firstly you can't really say anything to the girl who is going out with two people at once, as that would be a bit hypocritical of you. You need to sit down and think about which of these girls you like the most (if either) because this girl either thinks that you don't care about her because you go out with two at once. Or she cares about you and she wants to get your attention from this other girl and onto her by making you jealous.
If you like the quiet girl then you need to break it off with the other girl, but if you like the girl who talks about sex then you need to break it off with the quiet one and talk to her.
Also, do you like this girl BECAUSE she talks about sex or not? Basically that's what you need to decide.
Good luck :)
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