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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, im so confussed i dont know what im doing wrong. when i met boys it never comes to a realtionship, we text,met up and do everything a couple do and then as soon as it gets serious boys always seem to just want to end it. its really getting me down now and im starting to feel this is the way it is going to be foreve and ill b alone. could anyone help me change or point out what im doing wrong ???
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Well i dont mean to be rude my love but that may be your answer, if a young man can sleep with a girl after a week or two without having to be in a serious relationship then he will, so when you decide you want to be serious he has nothing to gain from that so is likely to leave, harsh but true.
My advice would be to hold off on the sex and get to know someone on a personality level and let them like you for who you are and they are much likely to want a relationship and for the right reasons, also it may be good to look into the type of guy you go for, are they really right? Also when you stop looking for love thats when your usually find it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for you answers :)
and to answer aunty alexxmo i mean sexual things.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Don't dispare, maybe relax a bit. Do you seem too keen? When you say 'serious' maybe that is a clue, are you frightening the boys off? Only you know, so maybe just take it easy and let a relationship develop very naturally.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Perhaps you are attracted to the wrong type of people. Try looking in a different setting. Perhaps the boys you meet are too immature for a serious relationship, they might try and avoid it out of some misguided fear of entrapment.
Don't think this will last forever. You will find a man who is unafraid of a serious relationship, do not doubt that. There are good men out there.
I hope that helps.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (9 December 2010):
When you say "things that couples do" do you mean sexual things or just coupley activities, if you could answer that it would really help =]
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