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writes: I am worried that i could be pregnant. i am 16 and started going out with someone, we had sex a week ago (with protection) and this was my first time. But before this we had been fooling around and he tried to go in, with no condom and it hurt, but i stopped it because i didnt want to do it. The time we had full sex, i felt when he had "popped" me. So the only thing that is making me think that i am not pregnant is that how could i be? if he hadnt broken through can i still be pregnant??? I am really worried, i am only 16 (he is 21 and said he wouldnt mind if i got pregnant) but i am toooo young. please help.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (25 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Well i completely agree with dr psych she is spot on, you could well be pregnant or maybe your not you really need to get a pregnancy test and stop worryin about this ok, sort it one way or the other if test is to expensive for you to buy go to your g.p where you can get the test done for free.. i think your very right in saying your too young to be coping with all the stress of having a baby brings,
I hope my advice was of some help to you sweetie :o) good luck ok... If you ever need someone to talk to or just a shoulder to cry on or maybe a little more advice, truely i'm always here for you ok :o)
You Take Care Babe And Good Luck X
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (25 June 2006):
 You could be pregnant (or maybe not!) and need to take a pregnancy test, but remember that the hcg hormone that shows up on such tests tends to be weaker in the first couple of weeks of pregnancy, and more accurate after you have missed your period. If I read correctly, you had protected sex on the occasion when you lost your virginity but you had unprotected 'first attempt' in which he penetrated you a little bit. Basically being a virgin doesn't protect you against pregnancy in the way you think. The hymen (the skin that pops upon first sex) is a piece of skin like string that is attached to both walls of the vagina - but it does have an opening in it to let out natural secretions and the products of menstruation. Put simply this gap is a two-way street, and men lose some sperm well before they have a full blown orgasm. My point is that if your man was excited upon penetration (as most are!) then there can be leakage. Sperm are nifty little fella's and can swim up the vagina and into the uterus without the need for full penetration. As for having babies at 16...well some girls do for all sorts of reasons but it isn't an ideal situation for mother or baby. You might not be pregnant but there is only one way to find out for sure! Make sure you use protection in the future whatever the result - not only for preventing babies but if your partner has had a sexual past then STDs are a consideration. Don't let him pressure you into having a baby at 16 - focus on your education, your career, your life...plenty of time for family later on!
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