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writes: I really need advice guys.I met this wonderful guy and we fell for each other. The only problem is my dad won't allow me to have a boy and girl relationship since my past lover just left me and got me pregnant. But I told him that I won't commit the same mistakes again and yet he won't believe me. I really do love this guy today and I can't let lose him and i know that he loves me as well. Please help me.What should I do to convince them that the intention of this guy is good? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, tyler's_cowgirl +, writes (19 July 2006):
It's kind of hard to convince your parents when they are already in a concrete mindset. Consdering (by what you have stated) your previous relationship ended badly, and your father probably does not want you to get hurt again, after all no matter how old you are you will always be his little girl and he just wants to best thing for you. Maybe you could invite your new male friend over to meet your father, for dinner or something, so that they can get to know each other?! It's a dad's job to ask his little girls boyfriend a million weird and often uncomfortable questions... maybe, just maybe, he will see that this guy is for real. They again, maybe not... the only way you will ever know is to take action and not be afraid of what might be. If it was meant to be it will be, one way or another! :)I wish you the best of luck, tyler's_cowgirl
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