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writes:I'm curious about anal but me and my girlfriend have joked about how weird it is before. Btw i am talking about her touching me there. How should i bring this up if at all? Thanks for the help :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): thanks guys :) i'll just bring it up. Little scared of her reaction but hey we're close, we love each other. It'll be fine. Thanks for the help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): next time you happen to be joking about it you could tell her you'd like to try it and ask her if she would be willing to try it, make sure she knows its ok if she doesnt want to and dont pressure her into it - just let her know how you feel.
hope this helps, you can always message if you want
good luck xx
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 If you and your GF ever discuss your sexual fantasies with one another, or if she ever expresses a wish to make you feel really good, "be the best sex you've ever had," or something to that effect...then would be a good time to approach this subject. Hopefully she is open-minded enough to try this at least once with you. But if she's not, don't pressure her. Likewise, if she tries it and is weirded out by it, don't put pressure on her to do it again even if you really enjoyed it. Experimentation is good but sometimes you need to respect one another's boundaries as well. Good luck =]
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