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30-35,
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writes:An attractive, nice, Korean guy just transferred to my high school a few weeks ago. He has lived in the US for 2 years. I sit by him in a few of my classes and I have a small crush on him. I really want to get to know him more but I'm really shy around him. He's never had a girlfriend before and I've heard from friends that he wants one and he wants to date. I think he might be attracted to me because he always smiles when I sit by him (we don't have arranged seating), I catch him looking at me sometimes, whenever I talk to him first, he will blushes, and he sits really close to me. We both have similar interests and personalities. I really want him to ask me on a date sometime, but I know we have to get closer before that happens. We are both a little shy so conversation is usually small and there is a little bit of a language barrier sometimes. What are some things we can talk about so we can get to know each other better? How can I get over my shyness around him haha? What are some signs that he's interested in me? Thanks!
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reader, zhuqiuyue  +, writes (3 November 2010):
Most Asian guys dont have that courage to make the first move.
You should do it.
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reader, ashja +, writes (3 November 2010):
Ok, here's what you do. Head to allkpop.com or ihoneyjoo.com and check out some of the popular Korean music artists. I dunno if you listen to Kpop at all but it's totally awesome. See if there are any artists you like and next time you're sitting next to each other, tell him "Hey, I was checking out this Korean band on YouTube the other day. What do you think of them?" If you dunno who to start with, check out 2ne1, BEAST, SNSD, Super Junior or KARA (just throwing out names of bands/singers who are popular right now.)
I guarantee he'll be SO excited and flattered that you know who they are and are interested in Korean culture at least somewhat and it will be a good ice breaker. You could also try learning a few basic phrases in Korean and asking him to help you with pronunciation. I'm a Korean major and it's a lot of fun to learn even just to have basic conversations.
I think he might at least be attracted to you if he's blushing and smiling whenever you talk to him. As for not being shy around him...can't help you. I'm still trying to find the trick to that as well. Lol! Good luck!! :D :D
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