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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok. I have a crush on my friend's younger brother. My friend is almost a years older than me and her brother is only about 6 months younger than me so age is not an issue. I met my friend in high school as freshmen but didn't really meet her family until senior year. We're all in college now.The thing is, I never really considered him as anything other than 'my friend's little brother' until this summer when one of my other friend's said she thought this guy might like me. I was really surprised at first but looking back I see signs that might mean he likes me. Don't know for sure though. Anyway, after I started thinking of him as something other than my friend's brother, I think I really like him. We actually have way more in common with each other than I have with his sister. He's away at college so I don't get to see him a whole lot but over vacations and whenever he's just home for the weekend I feel like I see him a lot and we talk on facebook/text once in a while. He always puts on music I like when we're in the car together even though my friend/his sister hate it and I feel like more and more whenever I hang out with my friend (and he's in town) he tags along. Which is completely fine with me :). Also, (I feel like this is a strange thing . . ?) we've talked about how many kids we want, etc. and we want about the same number/same kind of lifestyle. That's a weird/hinting conversation to have with a friend's brother right?One more thing; not sure how my friend would feel about us dating or whatever. I mean, they're pretty close but I don't think she's really the protective type. Honestly, it usually seems like he's older than her, so. I haven't talked to her about it. She's my friend but she's not my BEST friend and I'm not sure I trust her to keep it a secret from him whether she cares or not. So my question is twofold; does he like me/should I pursue him and what to do about his sister/my friend?
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