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writes: Dear Cupid,I developed a crush on my best friend's sister,we started to notice each other around town we always made eye contact and smiled at each other and finally I did manage to talk to herI think she knew I liked her a lot she would always look at me when she was in my work, I think she likes me I plucked up the courage to ask her out but she told she had a boyfriend and was sorry she couldn't.My problem is should I tell her how I feel or wait until her present relationship is over, I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): I would just ignore it and if she is no longer in a relationship just talk to her about something other than dating, and see what you pick up on. If you think she's interested go for it, but if you pick up a no vibe, then don't even consider her as a dating possibility
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (10 January 2005):
 Provided that she only has a boyfriend and not, say, a fiancee, this isn't a show-stopper. Relationships start and end all the time. You might be waiting weeks or months for her current flame to fizzle out (or, you might possibly be waiting forever, but it doesn't look like it to me, considering that she's eyeing you off right now), but you can live with that. Next time you're around her, and if the feeling still appears to be mutual, tell her that you're sorry that she's attached right now and that you think her present b/f is a lucky man. Let her know that if something ever happens and she's free, that you'd be happy to get to know her better. Smile. Then leave it at that. You don't need to say anything more, and it might make things awkward if you did.She knows where you work and being your best friend's sister, she'll know how to get in contact with you if she wants to. The ball's then in her court.Hope things work out for you!
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