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writes:i've been married nearly 23 years now. i have five kids or which four are between ages 16 and 21. the youngest is six. about four months ago, i grew closer to my husband friend of 3 years whom also is the father of my oldest daughter's boyfriend of five years. my husband is a business person whom is away most of the times because of business. when he is around, he is so stressed out from his daily business venues that causes him to loose respect for me emotionally. he would talk to me like one of the guys. his friend worked with me in one of my husbands business. at first we both felt the tension of being shy to speak to each other. until one day, he would start up a conversation and we would find ourselves in talks even about sex. we became very open with each other. days went by and we found ourselves falling for each other. we had so many things in common. we are eight years apart. my husband and daughter found out that we shared a relationship as close friends. telephone calls were also discovered at wee hours of the morning. but what they do not know is that we shared an intimacy together and that we still communicate with each other although they told us to stop. when we meet we are so torned that we can't share what we had. we still promise a future together. he gave me a promise ring to vow our relationship will continue. we tell each other that if fate is on our side our relationship will happen. i don't know what to do. i can't tell my husband that we fell in love and still are in love. how can i get my husband to leave me and find someone else that can appreciate him. i grew out of love for him. the problem is that he tries to change his emotional abusive words and attitude towards me but i love this other man and want to be with him.
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reader, Happivibes  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 hi, you have posted this confusing tale in several postings- all slightly differing.
you will only get helpful advice if you write one posting being very clear about the whole situation.
ok, so try to be calm and clear and then seek advice.
wish you well, happy vibes. x
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