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writes:Hey there im almost 15 and my boyfriend already is. Everything is great i love him very much and i think he does me to and everything is just wonderful. The only thing that bugs me is that his ex sent him a flair on facebook. It said i miss you and there was a rose on it. To me that seems like something a girlfriend would send when they miss there man. Do you think she could still have feelings for him? Or could they just be freinds or something? I do get jelous kinda easy. But i know they have history together even though im pretty sure he loves me. Could someone from the past make him change his mind about me? Thanks. P.s me and him get along great and he's really sweet and always tells me how much he loves me. I think I'm parinoid and need reasurance.
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reader, Louis Gibbo  +, writes (17 March 2010):
It not you who is jelous its her you shouldnt listen to things like that because she is trying to win him back and all thats stopping her is you. You shouldnt be ashamed or embarresed. Youve got him at she hasnt thats all there is to it! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): There is probably a chance that she still has a crush on him, most likely he ended the relationships and she's feeling a little sour about it and may be trying to cause you to feel uneasy so that you guys break up. Do not let it get to you, if he tells you he loves you, believe him. Do not start accusing him of being in love with her or having feelings for her.
I don't think he would be with you if he could still be with her. If they are still friends the last thing that you want to do is start getting jealous of her as this could lead him to choose between you and as she is the one that isn't making him choose, it may lead him to choose her. Relax, it will all be okay. I hope this helps.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Yes she still has feelings. It depends why they split up but yes an ex can seduce them back or visa versa.
It really depends on your situation with him and how faithful he is to you. If you have a fulfiled relaitonship then it is more unlikley he will stray away.
Everyone is different.
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reader, CharmedNoodles +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Well,as you said,you get jealous a bit easy.I am sure all that is,is that are friends,he says he loves you,and the flair said "I miss you" not "I love you" there is nothing to be worried for.If he says he loves you,then I am preety sure he means it,because check the facts,he tells it to you rite? And you love him too correct? then he and her may and probably are just friends.No need to be worried,just try not to get paranoid all the time,he may see you differently and get slightly unattracted.just act normal,and suspicious things you see,discuss it with him. Think about it and if you want.Get back to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): I wouldnt would be worried about the comment, now if you start seeing more of them then you might want to ask him about it. but if he loves you as much as you say he dose then there isnt anything to worry bout.
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