A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I've known this girl at uni for about a month now. I really quite like her, however I'm not too sure if she likes me back. Sometimes we can talk for hours without stopping, sometimes she's super quiet and doesn't seem too interested in me and what I have to say. We sometimes go to the shopping centre together, just us 2 and it's quite nice and I sometimes catch her staring at me or my work out of the corner of my eye. She's told me she's introvert and she sometimes doesn't talk for hours. Could this be why it sometimes feels like she isn't interested? Could she possibly have some feelings for me? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionRight, I get you now. Thanks for helping me understand
A
female
reader, janniepeg  +, writes (8 November 2014):
 There is a difference between shy and introverted. I am not a talker and certainly can't hold a conversation for more than two hours but I like kisses on a first date. I like to move things along and I hate ambiguity. A lot of people are both introverted and shy while others are not shy. You can be waiting until she tells she likes you but girls no matter what their personalities are, wait for the guy to pursue them. Girls don't understand how guys can be nervous. Talking a lot shows interest but it can also be being friendzoned. You don't know what she's like when she is with other people. If you are scared of being rejected that's why you are waiting for my signs, you could be waiting forever and nothing happens.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I shouldn't worry too much when she's talking to other people and being quiet with me? Sorry i should have added that. Thanks for the advice thiugh, it gives me some hope :)
...............................
A
female
reader, janniepeg +, writes (8 November 2014):
Being introverted means that sometimes you need time to reflect and process outside senses and people's feelings. It's a good thing. If you like her you should probably date. Don't focus on times when you are silent. You did have hours of conversations.
...............................
|
