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writes:My ex girlfriend and I had a rather rocky relationship, there was continual suspicion by her as previous post will explain.When our relationship seemed it was going great over night she called it all off and stopped all contact with me. Telling me she had some issues she needed to sort out, that it wasn’t the end for us, there was no one else. I figured it was to do with her excessive drinnking.I caught her with another guy around Easter and she has claimed it was her cousin, though I clearly remember hearing her call him baby and doubt her honesty I could be wrong though.After a month she has now told me she found out she was 6 months pregnant to her ex boyfriend and hence why the break up between us. Strange thing is I know while we were together she was still having her periods as she would get rather bad period pains though her periods would only last maybe 2-3 days. I had started to think she might have been pregnant (no where like 6 months, maybe 1 trimester to me) because she seemed to be getting chubby recently but there was no defiant bump and I would think at 6 months it would be quite clear to tell if so.I know her and her ex broke up before my ex and I had which was in August 08. She had moved back home by herself. She had said she hadn’t been with anyone else except for a couple of months before Christmas.Not sure what to think of it all. If she is pregnant by the 6th month she would be showing and wouldn’t still have her period I would imagine.Guess my greatest fear is if it is actually true is how sure she is that it is her ex’s since we had been sexually together in November 08 and continually since Christmas until our break up.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 Time will tell. If she was 6 months pregnant she'd be visibily so. I suspect if she is pregnant you may not even be the father but you won't know this until AFTER the baby is born. I suggest you ask her to get a blood test to determine who the father is before you get involved any further one way or the other. She probably doesn't even know who the father is because it sounds like she's been in and out of several beds, possibly before, after and during your relationship with her. Hence the reason she exited rather quickly. Take it all in stride. If she's pregnant, you'll know soon enough and eventually the truth will come out about who fathered this child. Until then, sit tight and keep living your life regardless of her situation.
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