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30-35,
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writes: I have a great girlfriend who is about 15+ years older but looks hot. We enjoy spending time together and doing fun things. She likes to shop and often buys me things. I feel kind of embarrassed when I don't have anything to give her. I might buy her things but I doubt anything would make an impression on her. I have often written her thank you and other notes. What are some other ways I can let her know I appreciate her gifts? What can I do to show she that I appreciate her particularly when she buys me things?Kissing and being close and physical with her may be a way I can let her know I appreciate her and her gifts. I like kissing and being close and physical with her so it may not really be a favor for her. Do you think kissing and being close and physical with her could be a favor/gift for her? How can I make it such? We have not had sex yet. I would like to though. Do you think telling her that I would like to have sex with her could be seen as a gift for her? Do you think having sex with her could be seen as a gift for her? How can sex be made really special for her? Is sex a good gift for her? Ladies is sex a good gift for you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): 15+ to be gives the impression the she could be as young as 15 and the fact that it states your age is between 18 - 21 means you could be as old as 21. So lets see a 21 year old is going out with a 15 year old and want to know if he can get a good reason to sleep with her. Does that sound harsh? I mean you say ladies is sex a good gift. This 15 year old is a GIRL not a Woman. She is a child. Whats going through your mind. Im sure your not a PEDO but think about how it can look.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): sex is not a gift but when you do it make sure you spend alot of time pleasuring her not just you to make it special music , mysterious places ,candles fun new things every time keep it interesting trampsalot in AK
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Well... Here's what you do: treat her real nice and buy her jewelery and treat her to dinner and movies or just take her out for a picnic( girls love that) then get all romantic with her and do what you want to do.... Lisen to your gut and go for it! Even if you don't It sounds like your tring! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Well personally I feel like sex is a given in any relationship. I would not be impressed if some guy decided to give me sex as a "gift", whatever that would mean. But being older. she probably understands that you can't get her other expensive gifts. You should just ask her. What is she into? Why don't you do her little favours, leave her little surprise notes in places for her to find, make her dinner, offer to take care of an errand for her when you see she is stressed etc. Trust me, these little things can really add up. Equating sex with a gift or something special you GIVE to someone is all wrong in my opinion. You are supposed to enjoy sex together.
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