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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together a year, and not too long since we started getting more "intimate". (sorry about the next bit it's kinda...graphic...) he's fingered me and licked me out, but we havn't had sex. Ever. I havn't come on my periods, I've missed it completely and I'm really worried, is it possible if he had his cum/semen/whatever on his hands or something that i could be pregnant? not chuffed....please help :)x
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reader, chachacha +, writes (15 April 2007):
It is possible, but it is unlikely.
He would only have had semen on his hands if he had already come and it was on his hands. I doubt he would then have continued to finger you after that.
To put your mind at rest, just buy a pregnancy test at the pharmacy and see whether you are pregnant or not.
Most likely your period is late because you are worried, and because periods are often not steadily regular, especially when you are young.
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reader, Pork Hock  +, writes (15 April 2007):
I've been in the same situation at your age, I remember the feeling. You can't think of anything else. It is unlikely but you should go and buy a pregnancy test, the Life ones are the cheapest. They are 99% accurate. I did 14 of them after I was married to determine I was pregnant. They are pretty accurate. I was pregnant. Just make sure when you are getting hot and heavy you make him put his sperm in your mouth, not down there. Get on a pill if you are experimenting. I had a friend whose parents had her at 14, it takes one time, I mean it and don't feel stupid for saying I can't or I don't want to. I had sex one time with my ex-husband and got pregnant. I couldn't believe it. Go see your GP or a walk-in clinic, buy a pregnancy test and be honest with them, they will admire you for caring and being bothered that you care.
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reader, charlieswoofas +, writes (14 April 2007):
 You really do need to be careful! It is incredibly easy to fall pregnant and in my case i did too when i was only 13 and didnt really know what i was doing at all! Hold up now before you get hurt, boys are only after one thing at this age and unfortunatly i didnt even know what that was! You must tell a parent its unbelievably hard but you must, im sure that if you told your mother she would be worried but soo please you went to her for help and have realised that you may get into trouble! Please tell your mam and get a test, you havent even started life yet, i havent even started life yet!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): Yikes, how old are you? Why are you getting so intimate at your young age? This can only lead to one thing having intercourse and there are many many reasons why you don't want to do this.....pregnancy being one of them. The risk of cervical cancer is another, by having sex too young.
To answer your question, if his semen or penis was anywhere near your vagina, you could get pregnant. He has lots of little swimmers and they are quite good at swimming and will live inside you for up to three days waiting to fertilize and egg....this can happen even when you are on your period.
So I am not sure of what you mean my it being on his hands, but if so, then yes!
First thing is you really should talk to your parent about what you are doing and ask your mom to take you to see a ob gyn doctor and discuss your options for birth control, talk about safe sex, talk about abstaining until you are older, and perhaps a pregnancy test...
Boys this age are really only interested in having sex with girls, and they are not really great boyfriends, do I hope you don't end up getting hurt.
Be careful and be safe, I hope this helped you, though I don't think I can make you keep your pants on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): It is very unlikely but to be sure you could get a home pregancy kit. It is possible but very unlikely and rare.
Good Luck.
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