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51-59,
*iamondblueeyes
writes:iv been told rumors that my husband is having a affair i dont want to believe it i love him so much his always told from the beginging that if he met some one else he would leave me he wont give me sex i havent had it for 3 months he as now told me he dont want kids he is waiting to get perment stay in this country do u think that is playing on his mind i always tell him i love him first he never tells me first could it be cause his scared of his future iv been with him 7yrs sex was good in the beging
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (16 October 2007):
No sex. No kids. You're wasting your time.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Rumors can be either true or false. It is hard to take them seriously, and then it is also hard to dismiss them easily. Sometimes they turn out to be true. But, I wouldn't go on rumors alone to determine whether someone is cheating or not.
No sex during three months could be an indication of cheating. But it could also indicate a problem in the relationship, not necessarily another woman.
You do have disagreements as to children, for example. After seven years, you want something more permanent, like children, and he doesn't. I don't know the laws of Britain, but I understand that many foreigners rush to have children because they want to have permanent stay. And, after seven years, he should be sure about what he wants with you. Apparently he is, but what he wants is not what you want.
Maybe you could give some more information?
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