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age
30-35,
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writes:Dear Cupid, I am a 15 year old male the started dating a 16 year old girl that says she loves me more than anyone but I don't know if that is true and I love her more than anyone. I recently looked on her myspace with her permisson and found some comments that she sent to two of her exboyfriends one of them was insisting her to be his #1 friend and another one says she still loves him and stuff but she denies that she wrote it and I keep getting people telling me she is cheating on me. I want to know if she is telling me the truth that she loves me and if she did not write that I was wondering if there was a way to get it out of her that if she really does love me and if she did write that without asking her and talking to her because I tried that, all she did was cry and say she swears she did not do that which hurt me alot. but I still want to know.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (18 December 2007):
 Well you can either believe her or not, it could just be people spreading nasty rumours out of jealousy and bitchiness or it could be true, you have to ask yourself "do i trust her?" if you can honestly say you trust her then just ignore this and be happy, but if you have any doubts then maybe its time to move on.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (18 December 2007):
 Unfortunately all you can do is believe her at the moment, if you still want to be with her.
As for the people who have said she is cheating, you should go to them and clarify exactly WHY they have said this to you. Have they SEEN her doing something she shouldn't? Has she told them something?
I know what it's like at that age - people love to stir and cause a bit of gossip, quite often based on nothing.
As for the ex's, she might not totally be over them yet. This doesn't mean she wants to be with him/them, but she shouldn't be sending them comments saying she loves them.
Just hold tight and observe her behaviour for the next month or so. Usually, gut instinct is right. If you still feel she is cheating, and you don't think you will be able to trust her, maybe then you need to think about the future of your relationship.
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