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writes: Ok, me and my boyfriend were together for a while, and i believe it was special. He cheated on me and i was heartbroken, although after a while i chose to put it in the past and forgive him. we had another long relationship before splitting up, things were on my mind i needed to deal with, and he was going through a lot too. He said stuff about me, and i done the same. Recently me and him have made up and been talking a lot about our past relationship, I want him back but I don't want people to think less of me, will it work the third time?
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reader, shania  +, writes (21 March 2006):
 It depends on what the real issues were about,that drove you two apart.If you never forgave him for cheating on you and you have tried to put it behind you but it didnt work then i dont think it could work a third time,because it will always be at the back of your mind.Trust plays a very important part in a relationship and if there isnt any...then you would be best to go your seperate ways.If it wasnt just about that and it was other issues then really you should be learning from your past arguments...not keep repeating them.Dont worry about what other people think....its got nothing to do with them,you should be concentrating on your future happiness.Do you both love each other?.....do you miss each other when your apart? if the answer is yes then you two,really need to talk and make a conscious effort to get along....but it shouldnt be a strain.Some couples thrive on arguments and love the bit when they make up....it doesnt suit everyone but i know a few that do and have been together years and years,but thats another story...it wouldnt be my cup of tea.My opinion is....if you keep splitting up and its causing nothing but heartache....then this man is obviously not for you.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2006): Well it's hard to say whether this relationship will work out or not.You have both obviously been through a lot together and there's still some things that you both need to address.It's up to you whether you give him another chance, bearing in mind he did cheat.Have a long talk with him, it can work wonders. But let him know exactly what you want from this relationship, let him know that it hurt you when he cheated and you don't want it to happen again. Both listen to eachother and work out something between the two of you.Good Luck
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