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writes:I know will sound like every teenage girls dilemma but I have tried all te usually advice about wait for the right guy and it still doesn't help me. When I was younger I had a tendency to be a bit standoffish with boys but im not like that now. But no lad is interested in me or wants to be friends with me. I have had a few crushes but they have all turned me down because I just wasn't right for them. My friends have also sent me on several dates with boys but they never want to meet up after that. I can be a bit shy and I'm sometimes really saracastic but I'm not standoffish with lads at all now and I don't know if it's just my personality that repels boys. I don't want to sound big headed but I'm not ugly and I'm average in appearance. Im not sure why all these lads keep turning me down and why no boy is even slightly interested in me. I've tried all the normal wait for the right guy or just be happy with who you are but it doesn't really help me out. Please if you have any answers or just advice please help me!
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reader, SweetSmoochy  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Moo's Mum is right. You are very young, and so are the guys you go to school with. Many of these boys have no idea what they're doing when it comes to girls, and the ones that do are generally not the type of guy you want to be around. Give it some time. Stop searching so hard. You may be starting to look desperate, and trust, you do NOT want that reputation following you around!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 I'm so sorry I hated this advice when I was you're age but you are still so young so don't panic about not having a boyfriend yet. Concentrate on having a lot of fun with lots of different people. Go to the movies, parties, social's etc and enjoy yourself without worrying about attracting a boy. The most attractive thing to a boy is a girl who is happy, confident and secure and not pinning for a boyfriend. Usually when you feel as though you don't need or want a boyfriend is exactly the time someone will come into your life. Forget about boys and live your life to the fullest you will be so happy.
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