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Could I date ex's mate?

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Question - (24 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *b123 writes:

hi

i need some advice,

me and my ex girlfriend broke up last year, my ex gf best mate and my best mate was going out but my mate dumped her for my ex gf, i have fallen for my ex gf s best mate she is so kind and careing and pretty i helped her and she helped me through the brake ups, i was talking to her alot up until the end of febuary we more or less have run out of things to talk about as we dont know each other much how can i ask her abou t her intrestes anmake conversation please help ?? i think she liked me and i relly like her i don want to go for it and ask her out and she freaks out and i lose a mate please help ??

thankyou

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008):

Hey, well for you its completely fine but..

for her. her friend might be upset... have you ever seen the movie mean girls? well they talk about two things you should know in this case.

1) one time regina got a dollhouse and thought she was too old for it so her mom wanted to give it to her cousin. regina wouldnt let her so she threw it down the stairs, she didnt want it but it was still hers.

2) "Irregardless, ex-boyfriends are just off limits to friends. I mean that's just like the rules of feminism."

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008):

WOW thats quite a story. If you like her and you think she likes you then you should ask her out. And for the question " could I date my ex's mate?" that other guy did what makes it any diffrent for you ? Go for it boy ! as for getting to know her better ask her simple things . Whats your favorite color? what do you see in your future? ( then ask if your in her future) (thats what I did :]) ask her what she intends to do like a career. stuff that is not so easy to answer but is easy and casual to ask. Ask her to go eat out with you or movies are always good. Or be creative.

I hope that I helped you in some way. Good luck

*~VG~*

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