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writes:ls it possible for a guy to feel that you had sex with someone else? l had sex with my guyfriend at a party and a day later my boyfriend showed up and we had sex. afterwards he said nothing and ignored me the whole night, in the morning we tried again but he just was cold. l asked him what was the matter but he ignored my question. the truth is, l could feel that he was smaller than the other guy and l was so loose. how can l bring this up now? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 November 2011):
 No he couldn't have felt it, if he was pissy he proberbly knew, someone told him I'm betting.
And honestly, shame on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): That's kind of harsh sleeping with him after cheating on him. Perhaps he already knew and wondered if u would say anything but because you didn't he might feel pretty hurt and that's why he was distant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): COULD anyone have told him, as TalkingHelps suggests?
If you are sure that nobody has, keep your own counsel on this matter; life is complicated enough as it is!
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reader, soon567 +, writes (22 November 2011):
dont bring it up. If he feels anything different it your guilt and not the size of your vagina. We wouldnt be able to tell but when youre with someone for a long time, we can tell when something is
wrong with you. Did the guy leave marks like places we could see. Do you bruise easly? For your question the answer to it would be no.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 November 2011):
 I'm assuming since you haven't told him that you cheated on him with this guyfriend. And now you are lying to him (a lie of omssion is still a lie).
Perhaps what he's picking up is your emotional change and distance (as you will need to maintain an emotional distance to keep this secret)
personally I think you need to say to him
"you know how I seemed different the other night?.... well there's something we need to talk about and you are not going to be happy...."
then bite the bullet and prepare for the wrath of a wronged boyfriend.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (22 November 2011):
 You should probably let him know that you cheated on him, first off. Truth is always the best policy.
The next thing you should do is apologise profusely and see whether or not he forgives you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): I think that someone has told him rather than him being able to tell
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reader, jssanothername +, writes (22 November 2011):
 You basically cheated on your boyfriend. Don't bother bring it up if he didn't. You made a mistake, you should feel bad and he had the right to be cold to you for a while... I personally would break up with you. If you want to make it up,, stop cheating on him and spend more time, ask him out on movie hangout in his place or wherever he wants to go. Put up with all the shitty friends of his that you don't like. Let him know that you love him only. Either he forget this or you two should go separate ways. It depends on how much you want it, or... how much you want sex...
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