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Could he secretly like me?

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Question - (8 June 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When we're around mutual friends, mostly girls, we're mean to each other and play fight and tease each other. We flirt too. When we're alone, we're much nicer to each other but still flirt. When I talk about other guys I think are cute around him, he gets pretty annoyed. When he's teasing me he's always smiling. I've caught him looking at me a number of times, and he looked interested when I caught him. Sometimes when I'm looking at him just cuz and he looks back he gets mad and asks me "What are you looking at?" But I don't think he means it meanly. When we play fight he gets me on my thighs, arms, and tummy. So could he secretly like me?

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A female reader, chloe babes x United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2010):

OMG i no how you feel there is this boy that i realy like and i think he likes me

but you have to be sure that he likes you

ok soo i he likes you start to get a little flertie with him and see what he dose

then u never no he might ask you out :) x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008):

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Yeah that is true. And while we were fake fighting once he told me he would never hang out with me in the summer but he was smiling and joking. It's like he wants to but...yeah

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A male reader, deadheart United States +, writes (10 June 2008):

deadheart agony auntsummer is the perfect time to be alone. Call him up one day and ask him if he wants to do something.

Don't ask him on a date though just something fun that you both enjoy.

If he says no don't try to pressure him into anything though that is something very important to remember never pressure somebody for anything.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008):

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It's too bad we probably won't get to do much alone since summer is, well, starting in 3 days :/

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A male reader, deadheart United States +, writes (10 June 2008):

deadheart agony auntWell if your really worried about ruining the friendship then maybe wait for him to make a move when he feels ready to have it not be secret.

Until then try to make situations where he might let his feelings spill (bring up the topic, be alone together somewhere nice etc.)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

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I don't think its that he's shy as much as he wants no one to know the truth. I like our friendship though and don't want to ruin what we do now if I ask him and the feeling isn't mutual.

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A male reader, deadheart United States +, writes (9 June 2008):

deadheart agony auntThe only way to really know is to ask him, if he really does like you he might be shy to tell you.

If he dosn't like you just say you were joking.

:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

It certainly sounds like he likes you and he doesn't seem to be making much of a secret about it. The guys probably wondering what else he has to do for you to get the message.

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