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writes:Sorry this is going to be long and complicated but i really need some advice.Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we are very happy together, i love him so much. The problem is his friend kissed me recently, i pulled back straight away and told him to keep away.We used to be friends before i met my bf, but he tried to cause a lot of trouble at the begining of our relationship, so i cut off all contact with him as i felt he left me no choice.He apologised recently for the way he behaved before and said he was sorry for being nasty to me just because i was in a relationship, it was after all this that he kissed me. I like him but no more than a friend and i have said this to him many times.So, i dont know if i should tell my bf what happened or just ignore it. Im starting to think he might still be trying to split us up so he could tell my bf that i kissed him - which just isnt true.Please help i dont know what to do, and i feel as though this is my fault. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Hi Hunny
This guy isnt a friend he wants you, I was in a situation like this when I first went out with my b/f, My so called friend got very jealous and said some awfull things so I just stopped all contact..As I had trusted him and he just followed me around as Id not had a good relationship for yrs..I had told him that we were just friends and he said he accepted this but obviously not..Tell your b/f that this friend is not what he seems that you dont wish to see him again and what he did and let him ring him so he can give him a piece of his mind love..And you tell him to love he is trying to split you up as he wants you to himself, Dont let him hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 April 2008):
Tell your boyfriend this guy tried to kiss you. I assume he knows this guy was being weird with you at the start of your relationship.
Tell him exactly what happened from the start and tell him you don't want this guy to be in your life any more. Ask your boyfriend to help keep him away from you because he sounds like a bit of a psycho.
You did nothing wrong, you pushed him away. Tell your boyfriend straight away as if it comes out later on it will make you look like you had something to hide.
The main thing you have to worry about it your boyfriend over reacting and going after this guy so make him promise to stay with you no matter how angry he is. Tell him not to sink to this psycho's level.
Good Luck!! xx
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