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writes:I have just met a new guy and from our first meeting we had an amazing closeness and chemistry. I slept with him on our second date and it was very intense and wonderful. we have loads in common and seem to be on the same wave length in and out of bed. he wants to see me again and I'm relieved and glad because I feel a lot for him. is this love or lust? I'm just not sure. I seem to feel like I have known him before its strange. Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (22 August 2011):
 it might work out well or it might not. sometimes a feeling of knowing someone really well, when you clearly don't and having amazing connection with them when you really have not invested the time into this is getting things very wrong. some guys will be very full on from the outset and 'spookily' everything you like and all of your opinions are spookily their opinions too! some guys are very unscrupulous and they know the 'me too' routine will give you that sense of having met your perfect other half and you will quickly jump into bed with them.
i am not saying your man is like this - but do yourself a favour and come back down to earth until you know him better
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for replies. Yes you are right I came out of a long term relationship in Feb of this year. I am vunerable but not afraid to be on my own. I am just going to enjoy the moments and time will tell if anything series develops. I feel a bit overwhelmed though maybe should have taken things a bit slower but u can't turn the clock back. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): Its too soon. You have done only a few hours and you dont know the real person yet. Dont let him see you getting carried away at this stage. It may make him back off from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): it may just be you want to find some one. It is better not building yourself up for a fall. Have you just got out of a long relationship or not been in one for a long time? Be careful you dont get used. You appear vulnerable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2011): Only time will tell....enjoy the moment, go with the flow, don't ask questions just savour your time together and see how it all develops.
Good luck xx
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