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writes: Hey guys!I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now..and in the beginning it was brilliant! He'd message me all the time and talk about me to all of his freinds! even work ppl (yes we work together but in total different departments and i rarely see him as i'm also a student).It hasn't been the same in the last 2 and a half weeks where he doesnt message me or call and i rarely even know what's happening with him! The communication has practicaly gone and i seem to always message him! I asked him to meet up this w/e but he has an exam and a footy game the next day...and i had planned to actually talk to him about our relationship this w/e! When he replied, no...i was upset because i've been feeling unsatisfied for a while now...so i've just completely told myself not to message him or call him because if he wants to meet up he has to ask me! I'm sick of me doing the chasing!but...i just don't understand how things can change in such a small amount of time...the beginning was just amazing, and we haven't even experienced any sort of arguments but now that this is happening i'm not sure if it's just me feeling this or him too?! If it doesn't work out then i guess...not all good things last...but guys i don't know what to do! Should i message him? or wait till next w/e...because i'm sure he will message me sooner or later..am i being too analytic? too worried?...i'm really not sure and i'm also really upset! any comments would be great! Thanks :D Reply to this Question
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 You say your sick of doing the chasing, so don't do the chasing anymore you asked him to meet up with you this weekend and he has got other commitments so sit back and let him make the first move now.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (15 June 2007):
 There are many many reasns why things could have changed between you and you'll drive yourself crazy thinking about it all. Ok, so he couldnt meet up to chat this weekend. Text him and ask to meet up next week sometime as you would like a chat.
Me and my partner don't chat "all" the time anymore as we kind of run out of things to say to each other. Which sounds worse than it really is. We talk through texts during the day, maybe 5 or 6 messages, then we may talk on the phone in the evening.
2 and a half weeks does seem a short amount of time to change, but you may find he's just panicked about how fast you are getting close or something like that :)
Hope this helped!
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