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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with a very special man, unfortunately things keep going wrong and I can't wipe the memory, lots of things where I feel like he has disrepected me, he is a bit of flirt and I can't work out whether I'm too demanding or whether we just aren't right for each other I have had warining signals flashing in my head but he hasn't been unfaithful, he travels a lot and he has lied about the time he has spent with other women his reason being that I'm jealous and would go mad if he told me the truth (finally got it out of him) but I would welcome the truth, then I would know it's ok, if someone has to lie then I worry obviously. But I don't trust him because of teh way he acts around other women perhaps it's just his ego so that makes me now seem jealous having pulled him up on it. I just feel as if we have now got a complete communication breakdowm and he feels as if he is under suspicion and dating a mad woman - confused - heart or head which should I follow
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (13 October 2007):
Follow your heart. His offense was merely an error he tried to save your feeling. A little white lie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): Head. It's so easy for me now to spot an emotionally unavailable man. It's even funny how the creeps always act the same way. It doesn't matter if they are from Mexico, Alabama or India. These abusive men always make us feel like we are crazy. Everything is always our fault, they are ALWAYS SOOO OCCUPIED with THEIR THINGS and THEIR JOB.
Once they are well into the relationship they never find time for us. They always claim "their space" and are always disrespectful towards us.
They usually have a good social reputation and that's what attracted us to them at first. But then they transform themselves into monsters and you think you are the problematic person.
Sweetie run for your life!!! Read this and see if it makes any sense and DO SOMETHING about your relationship. I did it. I suffered the pain of separation but honey I'm healed now.
http://naughtygirl.typepad.com/mrunavailable/understanding_unavailable_men/index.html
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