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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so I really like this girl but its not happening as we both want to stay friends plus she likes someone else, however this girl and I have been texting for over a week or 2 and things have been flirty and i think shes starting to like me as i know it sounds stupid but shes the one who keeps adding an extra kiss on the end of our messages within a week we've gone from 2 to 5 and i think she does like me. I like her as a friend definitely and i have thought of relationship thought about her if i didn't like this other girl id definitely go for it shes a really great girl and very attractive i don't want to lose her in my life, i also don't want to wait till my feelings are gone for this other girl incase its too latedo i ask her out or not? im very confused
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (5 June 2013):
He who hesitates.....
You need to go for it. Tell her simply, "Ok, this has gone on long enough. We should be going out, we both know it, so lets do it." Or something along those lines. Say it confidently, almost presumptively. You will know immediately if you were right or not.
If you're wrong, nothing really lost. If she's really your friend, she still will be (even though you really dont want that). If you do nothing, then you sit home wondering what if while the guys with sack get all the girls....
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