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writes:What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend becasuse she is going camping with her boyfriend.Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would u tell me that?? Is she nuts? i didnt contact her, i text her 2 weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"I dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began.I don't!Additional Details3 minutes agoShe is the one who dumped me...if that matters. I dont think she is trying to make me jealous though because then she would be calling all the time right???The only thing I did was ask HER SISTER how the cat was and if i could see it. Her sister offered the cat to me...then my ex- girfriend ran into my friend and she said "oh have him call me" I didn't and SHE was the one to ask for my number. I eventually text her and she called me and we had the above conversation. Other than that I have not contacted her once.Oh and after she asked "do you need something..i texted back "just saying hi".. she didnt answer back and havent talked since that was 2 weeks ago.I'm 25 now and she is 22. We met when she was 17. We both lost our virginity to one another.She did say in a e mail when we broke up that she dosen't regret being with me..so thats kinda good news
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Has this been posted like 3 times?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): It sounds to me that she had a moment where she was jelous to hear of your news & maybe she wished that she was back with you and then she thought about it & changed her mind, she sound's like to me that she is unsure of the decision that she made i think you should stay away, get on with your life your relationship finished for a reason don't look backwards look forwards!
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