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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello CupidI am perusing a girl since February. we went out few times and hanged out. Well, when we talk in person she is showing she is interested yet when I text her, she seems otherwise. In person, we have fun and I make her laugh and she enjoys. On texts and whatsapp, she gives lots of mixed signals. Sometimes she blocks me on whatsapp (she thinks I don't know) and then I ignore her and she unlocks me and find excuses to talk to me like if I changed my mailing address or my phone number. (she never mailed me or knows my mailing Id)She blocks and unlocks me on whatsapp quite often. I am feeling to lose interest not sure if she is interested or not. I am confused. Anyone with suggestions. please help. P.S I don't overwhelm with texts and she has exam in a week.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 April 2013):
 texting is no way to have a relationship or friendship.
IF YOU WANT TO PURSUE HER then DO IT. you are not doing it with texting or whatsup.
Be an adult, pick up the phone CALL HER and ask her out.
that will tell you where you stand with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2013): An older man once shared some advice with me. He said, "Always be yourself and NEVER pretend to be something you are not." Twenty five years later, I cannot tell you how valuable that piece of advice was.
Other than that: What Tisha said :-)
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reader, CMMP +, writes (2 April 2013):
Why don't you just ask her out? The longer you wait the more confusing it'll get. If she says no you can stop wondering.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 April 2013):
 Do you ask her out, or just text her?
Offer to take her out after her exam and treat her to dinner or drinks or something nice.
If she says 'no' then she's not interested.
Texts are a low-energy way to communicate and don't show much of a commitment on either of your parts to further the relationship beyond chatting via text. It is a bit odd that she blocks and unblocks you but maybe her coordination on the keyboard of the phone isn't that great.
If you like her, ask her out. All waiting around for her to show interest will do is allow the guy who DOES ask her out the opportunity to date her.
If you are afraid of rejection then find a way to cope with her saying 'no.' I think you will regret in the future if you don't actually ask her on a proper date. Hanging out doesn't qualify as a date, by the way, that's what friends do.
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