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female
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36-40,
*irlgirl
writes:hi everyone!so here it is,i have a boy friend ,we're together since 1year,we love each other very much,but he got a colleague,she's too close to him,she tells him everything about her personal life especially with her boyfriend,like "he doesn't express his feeling for her,he's rude with her...." everything to make her "poor pretty girl" in my boyfriend eyes.. anyway,he told me that they were very close before he start dating me,she used to call him and they used to talk like all the night,she used to call him many times,and same with him.now ,he's seeking another job in the same time just to get more money,he's a teacher,he asked me if i knew some people who want some English courses and i said ok i'll help u find them,and he said" i already have an offer" and guess what? that colleague suggest him to teach her sister at home..yea why not! i don't know what this chick is about to do or what she really wants,but i dnt trust her!i can't,and i asked him to not come with her if she suggest giving him a drive bt car cz he's not far from his house,but he still coming with her in her car,and he tells me everything,and like he didn't want to be rude with her.. i really dn't know what to do!
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reader, Furiousity  +, writes (4 May 2012):
Just straight up tell her to cool it with your man! If your not okay with them being all chummy than tell her this is making you uncomfortable with her being so close th your man
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 May 2012):
 Okay you do not trust this woman for whatever reason you have, but do you trust your boyfriend? Are you scared he is going to cheat with her and leave you? You need to tell him how you feel about this. Be open and honest with him and truthful. Sit down and talk to him. However at the end of the day he did warn you before you got together that he was close friends with this woman, I don't think he will end this friendship for you so I guess you need to talk to him and see if you are able to live with it. If you cannot trust him then maybe he is not the man for you.
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