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51-59,
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writes:2 girls...girl A i have liked for a long time(5years), but she was in a relationship which has been broken off which she has a kid from, which is 1 year old.the father is a loser who doesnt help out and who there is constantly problems with. She is 23 and just got out of a long relationship,and we have started talking even tho she knows i have a gf... she lives on her own, she is a good mother, gorgeous girl, confident, strong, and takes care of herself...maybe could picture us getting into more serious fights because she is soo hard headed tho.Girl B is 20, i have been seeing her for a bout a year..she is a lil more immmature, good girl, kind heart, lives with her parents, very sweet, gorgeous too but a lil bit needy tho...at first she wasnt really what i was looking for, but slowly but surely has been getting better....her insercurities are holding our relationship back and the difference in our age.. i am 24 and live on my own, and take care of myself, looking for a long relationship, not just a good time...The problem with girl A is mainly her kid.. i dont know if im ready to have a gf who has a kid. The problem with girl b is mainly the age difference and matturity difference....What should i do....Girl A Girl Bor get rid of both..plz help! Reply to this Question
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reader, loveu2010  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 you need to get rid of both and find sum 1 else becase obv none r the person u wanna b with other wise you wud no and whats more there plenty more fish in the sea
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (16 December 2009):
Girl A will be better in a relationship because she will work harder at the relationship since she has failed before and will want to do it right this time, if you can learn to accept the kid. The child is innocent and should not stop you from having a good relationship with your girl, except it might limit your spontanaiety eg. You want to make love and baby cries or you want to take off for a movie or a holiday then you need to plan for baby. Also, a strong minded woman is good, a pushover in the long run gets really annoying and shows a lack of depth of character.
Girl B sounds immature but age gap is nothing special; in a couple of years you won't even notice. But you said less positive stuff about girl B so maybe deep down you know what you want.
Make up your mind soon because if the find out you are supermarketing them then you will be boy Z for zero
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