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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so I'm not super model material but I've been told by people that I am an attractive person, my problem? Men just don't seem to talk to me and I'm shy when it comes to meeting new people. Close guy friends have told me its because men are intimidated or just assume I'm taken which doesn't make it worth the effort to them. I feel like I'm good enough to look at but thats where it stops, like I'm missing some important aspect. Any opinions or suggestions?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 I two was a 'catch' when I was a bit younger. When men got to know me I was suprised because they were suprised about how easy it was for them to talk to me. On first impressions one even told me he avoided me because he thought i was a snob. If you are friendly with people and have a nice smile that usually will break the barrier down. I'ts a two way thing, if you like someone, then you can show an interest in them first instead of waiting for the other way round. I wonder if men only feel comfortable with a plain woman because they think someone will steal their good looking woman away from them. hope this helps.
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