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male
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41-50,
*udio1
writes:Hello, and before reading this thank you for taking your time your imput will be greatly appreciate it. Sorry for the typos english is not my first lenguage.I been dating this girl for almost 2 years. The relationship has had its ups and downs. Her family never liked me b/c im spanish. (I do have an ok job and my english is good). All this started b/c her brother is addicted to Blues ( synthetic heroin) and used to live with her. THe dude will get high as hell and then try to start fights. YEs i had to kick his ass one time b.c he trew her to a coffee table breaking the glass into her face. Police came took him, it was bad. He ended up moving out. Anyways back to the real problem We have a great time together, we laugh, we smoke weed together all the time, he have great sex. She is 25 and im 30. We been living together for the past year and a half. I bought a house and let her stay here for free, I also lend her money for a car, she lost her job and has not pay me back..... Crap im deviating so much.... Ok I had to work at Ultra Music Festival ( the biggest electronic music festival in the world). She wanted to come but i couldnt get her in for free. She was very upset that she coulnd come. So Saturday we made plans that had to be canceled , i went home to sleep and she did the same supoosely. Monday i received a call from my good friend saying that he saw her Satruday night at a bar with her slutty friends, and she made out with a guys she meet over there. My friend was with 2 other friends, one of them actually ask her is she knew me, she said yes and went back to her friend. even after that fact she still kiss that other guy in their face, while the dude was gettin in her taxi trying to convience her to with him. Now i confronted her, i did not even mentioned the kiss info. i was just supper pissed that she went out , lying to me. SHE COMPLETELEY DENY IT.!! i talk to my friends send them pics of her and they all agree that it was 100% her. Also Sunday i called her early so i could sneak her in , but she didnt call back till 12pm. The problem is that she denys it, she called me all kind of names. I havent spoke to her. My last text was when you want to be honest we can talk. otherwise leave me alone.... my proble is that i cant sleep, i am so sad, so upset, so dissapointed, sometimes i want to believe that my friends mistake her for someoone else ( like she says) but its hard my friends are 40, 32 and 24 I know they wont make this shit up. I want to get her out of my mind..! What can i do? i miss her so much and im very in love with her. Also, i do have to confess that i kiss a girl in the event, but she was very high and drunk, it was the worst kiss ever and it shoulnd have happened. I am willing to confess and actually forgive her since i did the same. The problem is that she is a liar and she does not want to come out clean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2013): The only way to get past this situation with peace of mind
is by knowing the truth. Trust is the issue at hand. ask ur self??? do i trust her? do i trust the info & who gave it to me? can I trust her in the future? how dose ur gut feel?
TRUST UR GUT FEELING. that is ur answer now man up & dump the lying slut. Even if you are wrong (ur not)with out trust you will never have peace of mind
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reader, jenlarlham +, writes (28 March 2013):
First of all i have found that playing pay back in a relationship will lead to heartache and headache. Second if you can't trust her you have no relationship that will last. It's easier to forgive someone for a mistake than to forgive someone for lying. Sorry, I hope it works out for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2013): You both are way to involved in the drug culture for your relationship to be drama-free. If you are going to tell her, tell her. If you are going to forgive her, do it.
Peace, Love, Unity, Respect...why can't you live it?
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