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*amasquish77
writes:Me and my fiance have been engaged for now 6 months. He is in the army and just came back from basic training not even a month ago. Last week I found out that he cheated on me with an ex girlfriend. She claims that he doesn't love me and anything she could. When I confronted him, he explained to me that he was drunk and thought it was a good idea at the time, but now that he knows I found out and want to leave he says that he wants to go to marriage counseling and try to make things work, and do anything he can. Now if i was any person giving advice because I am going to school for Psychology I would think I was a fool, and leave him. I can appreciate that fact but also I have always been brought up that people make mistakes and that if God can forgive you can make exceptions as well. Also it's not like he is still, it was only once and he is trying to make things right as well. I think he truly is sorry but maybe i am being bias....What can We do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): Marriage counseling is a good idea! Just because he only did it once doesn't mean that you two don't need to work this out and get back on mutual ground. I believe in forgiving, but that doesn't mean you'll forget anytime soon. Try to let him know how it made you feel so you don't bottle everything inside, and like I said marriage counseling is definetly a good idea!
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