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36-40,
*obakeep
writes:Recently i broke up with my 2 years bf that i really love alot. I was really sad because he never give me a reason of breaking up with me. To cut things short, after 2 months, i met up with 1 of my for years friend, we seldom see each other but we always do keep in touch. On the same day, he introduced me to one of his friends, so we drink alot and i end up kissing both of them. Frankly, this is the 1st time i flirt with guy. Things got worst, both of them already have gf but they still want to go after me. They treat me really good, post presents to me and travel 5 hours just to see me (i work at my neighbour country, and they didn't come here together.) I know this kind of relationship won't last long, and i don't want to hurt anyone, but i just can't control myself. How i wish i can be back the previous me, a good and sweet gf, never cheat to my bf, but i already change, to a bad girl. If they don't have gf, i will have a normal relationship with one of them.. but things just happen so worst. pls give some advice.
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reader, NuttyGooner  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 Feel free to be friends with them, but don't take it any further with these guys, you owe it to yourself, honey!
All the best,
Nutty xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Just stay friends with them and make a point of never going any further.
Take care
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reader, oobakeep +, writes (6 March 2007):
oobakeep is verified as being by the original poster of the questionluckily i havent sleep with them. yeah, i do tell them to leave me alone, and i said that is possible for me to be the 3rd party. the problem is they still dun wanna give up, and i dun wanna lose the friendship with them (we knew each other 4 years), so what i can do is maintain the frenship with them and no further things. am i right to still hang out with them??
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reader, NuttyGooner +, writes (5 March 2007):
I'm in agreement with Shandy, You're on the rebound, hunny, you're not a bad girl. It takes two to fool around! What about these 2 guys with gfs? Are they not also in the wrong for getting up to no good behind their gfs back?Walk away, don't get involved with them - you're already feeling bad about yourself by thinking of yourself as a "bad girl". When you feel better about yourself, then go back on the dating game - in the meantime, stay away from guys that are taken!Good luck, and blessings.Nutty xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): You need to leave these guys alone. First off, tell them to leave you alone. These guys are jerks and you're making yourself look bad by getting involved with them when they already have girlfriends. You are letting yourself turn into a bad girl, it's up to you to change it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): Walk away. You are not forced to be with them are you? Break the mould and tell them both that you are not interested. They have a gf each so why are you even hanging around with them? Just walk away with your dignity. You haven't slept with them, or have you. Have some pride and dignity and leave well alone and get yourself a bloke who is free and single.
Take care
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