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writes:I'm a 26 year old gay man, just coem out of a 7 year relationship because my partner had been cheating on me. Going through a messy break up as we have joint mortgage and were married last year.Just wondered how everyone else copes/has coped when their long term relationship broke down Reply to this Question
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reader, Reebe +, writes (18 January 2008):
 I'm going through a similar break up, (although no one cheated)
and there's no quick fix, the next few months will be stressful in regards to your mortgage, but that will soon sort it's self out.
The only thing you can try to do is be strong and to keep reminding yourself that you are worth more than someone cheating on you. You need a secure relationship but your maybe not going to be interested in any one for a while.
What I do is take it one day at a time, remind yourself it's ok to cry and scream and let out your frustration, what ever you need to do to cope.
It's not easy and one thing that helps me is that most people have gone through something like this and eventually they manage to move on, so there's hope for me and you. I also try to keep my mind busy because as soon as I don't it's there.
Take it easy and remember your not alone out there.
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Take a look at this and see if you can use any of the ideas here:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-get-over-your-ex.html
I found they worked for me.
Let us know how you get on and best of luck!
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