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writes: This letter will probably just sound like I'm having a bit of a whinge but anyway, I'm 26 and have been single for just over a year now, the thing is I'm totally useless at chatting up girls and I'am becoming increasingly frustrated with exactly what it is girls actually look for in a guy and just what it is they see in guy's that I know are not very nice people.I'm a decent looking guy, an easy person to get on with and have a nice personality but I always seem to attract the exact opposite.At the moment the only place I seem to get any chance of contact with a girl is on the dancefloor on a night out but how do you start a conversation on the dancefloor? I had a girl eyeing me up most of the night in a club the other week and she kept on lifting her head and smiling at me everytime she left the dancefloor, I turned round as she walked past me and we both looked at eachother and smiled and I said 'hiya' but later on when I finally plucked up the courage to go and talk to her (I have no idea what I would have said to her by the way but I did think of something and it took me ages) she give me a funny look as if to say 'go away'. I'am not too keen on offering a girl a drink anymore as I would have done years ago, because of the whole drink spiking issue that is around these days, so come on girls what exactly are you looking for in a man and I'll take chatting up tips from anyone.Thank u Reply to this Question
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reader, pica +, writes (21 August 2006):
I think bars and clubs are rubbish places to meet people. Barnzy is right. Join something, go somewhere where the focus isn't on 'meeting'. It's much easier to talk when there's a common interest.
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reader, Barnzy +, writes (20 August 2006):
 Heya!
All you need to do is meet new people. Go to a different night club, go to a running club, go to a gym, go to night school, go to st. jon ambulance... the possibilites are endless. All you need to do is go out and meet new people. Plus be yourself. Im sure someone will be interested in you.
I'm having this problem at the moment so im changing my job, I will meet new people and im sure i will find 1 person out their for me...
REMEMBER! Be yourself!
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