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Chasing my girlfriends best mate

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Question - (27 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

i am going out with a girl and weve been in a relationship for so long. but we havent even kissed and for a fiver i kissed a mate who i now fancy! she means more to me now than my girlfriend! and i want to leave my gf for her. but my gf is best mates with her and im best mates with her byf. im tryna get advice off a realli good mate of mine but she isnt very sure. so please help me. i realli fancy her. shes no nice and pretty and popular and kind.

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2006):

bonym agony auntWell your current relationship doesnt seem to be going anywherem, why are the 2 of you still together? You say that the girl you kissed for a fiver means a lot to you, but you only kissed her, do you know a lot about her, you say she is popular, so is your current girl not popular? My friend, I think you need to be honest with your girl and if the relationship is not working then you need to tell her that. But the other girl has a boyfriend so you cant date her right now. Your girl wil be hurt that you kissed her best mate and your best mate will be hurt that you kissed his girl! My word this is too confusing!!!

You need to start being honest with yourself first then honest with your friend and girlfriend. Take care. xXx

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A female reader, Chelsea United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2006):

Chelsea agony auntDifficult one. If you were to date this girl, you could risk losing your best mate and your current girlfriend might end up falling out with hers. The best thing to do would be to talk to the friend that you fancy and see how she feels about you first and then find out what to do next. If she happens to feel the same then you all need to talk to each other and talk about the situation.

Good luck x

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