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writes: i have been with my boyfriend for 14 months now,he is in the army and has recently been posted 230 miles away which is ok as we see each other weekends,the thing is since he left he has been getting more and more girls numbers where from i dont know texting and phoning them,and when we are together he ignores them all,i have confronted him about but all he keeps doing is lying to me ,as i have found out about a couple that werent so innocent. i am now 3 months pregnant and the trust just isnt there,he very rarely phones or texts i am just at the end of my tether please help
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Kiv, writes (11 February 2005): Honestly, you should consider yourself alone on this one. You have a child to worry about now. Decide what is best for you, and decide what is best for a child. Once you've made those decisions, worry about your relationship.If this is your first child, you're in for a wild ride. And it's not a ride you want to go on with a guy you don't trust. Figure this out, and figure it out fast. Sit down with him for a "No Sh*t" assessment of where you stand. Talk about responsibilies and what he's going to do about them. He will fulfill his obligations, the Army requires it. I assume that you are POSITIVE that it is his child.Remember: Decide for you and the child, then the relationship. Don't force a relationship for the baby. Trust me. But don't let him skate either. If you have this child, you will have some type of relationship with this man for the rest of your life. Decide what it is.
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