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writes: I am a 17 year old female who has a crush on the captain of the football team. His name is Kevin. He always sees me in the hallways and makes sure he walks by me and he says hey. At lunch one day he was behind me and he rubbed his member past my behind and pushed on me. Well,,,, I am going out with him now and he alwasy seems to say the wrong things and he has to have sex every night. What do I Do?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Stop having sex and see if he gets bored and starts planting his 'goals' elsewhere. If he is just after sex and you don't give it to him all the time then he will move on elsewhere. Teen boys think girls are turned on with their bits and pieces the way they are about girls bits and pieces...his hormones are bouncing at the moment as they are with any 17 year old, but lets see how he acts when you cool off a little in the bedroom.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Not enough information to give a rounded view of the situation, really, but here goes...
From what you say about his 'wooing' of you, i.e., rubbing himself on you - I would say that he is somewhat disrespectful of you and that should have been a clear indication that he sees it as a purely physical attraction he has for you, so I wouldn't go harbouring any hopes of a deep and meaningful relationship with this guy.
At best he seems a little clumsy about making his feelings clear, and uses his body to do the talking.
Enjoy yourself, but I really think you are barking up the wrong tree if you think this one is going to be for keeps!
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reader, pashun8tly +, writes (27 June 2006):
Well, I guess you got what you wanted. Are you surprized he's a sleaze? So he wants sex every night, is that the real problem?
Let me break it down to you sister: he's the type of guy who wants a GIRL GONE WILD kinda girl...unless you're putting out for a time being, he will inevitably get bored & go to the next.
I'm sorry to say guys don't get any better when they get older, too.
Listen to what big sis is telling you here: you must draw the line and don't get caught up with the party girl mentality because that is empty living. You will feel non-existent and feel like you're caught in the trap of having to use your sex for attention.
So you're young enough to start your own revolution! I believe GIRLZ RULE & have since day one...it was because of boyz/mens' insecurity that they had to make themselves better than us because, why? They're stronger? What does that matter if they're a dumbass!
So don't kiss any guy's ass & most definitely don't play yourself...there's no such thing as Mr. Good Guy--that's been played out since Cinderalla!
Ciao, bella!
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