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writes:Hi everyone. I've had a crush on a girl at college for a while now, and I just can't tell if she likes me back or not. We hadn't talked at all until over a month ago, when our class ended. When class ends, we always went different ways. But on that day (it was raining), she looked at me while she was about to go the other way, and followed me just to complain about the weather. Ever since then I've talked to her multiple times and gotten to know her to figure out if she likes me back or not but I can't tell.Apart from those things, I can't tell if she's really shy or really rude or what. I did a presentation for her club (which she was a few minutes late for), and she did her homework during the presentation (though the deadline was that day, and she was really stressed about it), and after the presentation ended, I asked her if she wanted to do the homework together, and she said no, because she doesn't work well with others. I get the feeling that she would have said yes if she liked me and wanted to spend time with me. I also sent her an email helping her with a homework question an hour after the presentation ended, because I said I didn't want her to stress out over it, but she never replied and she never even said thank you. I was so appalled by how rude she was that day that I haven't talked to her since then. After that day, I noticed her rushing to catch up to me after another one of our classes ended (she slowed down after catching up to me), but I didn't talk to her. And she's also been taking a longer way after the end of class since then, which is the way I go (she might be acting as if she's going to see a professor after class). I can't tell if she wants me to talk to her or what. What do you guys think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2014): I don't think you have enough info to tell if she really likes you or not. She could just be stressed with school work and not even thinking about 'boys' during this busy time, she may just not see you that way...just yet. I'm a girl and when I was in school I didn't really focus on guys around me that much, I just wanted to get my work done. I find I thought more about guys if I was outside of school, in more social situations...but that's just me. I personally would have said thank you to the email if I was or wasn't interested, but I'm just a nice girl...so I dunno. I would wait more and just chat with her when you can. Let HER come to YOU. Be friendly and that, but I feel like at this point she has to do something to show YOU that she's interested in something more...you don't want to be too pushy or clingy, so just be cool and just keep talking when you can and get to know eachother. Go with the flow, I would say...I think it's too early to tell.
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