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writes:I posted a question a while ago about my 'sex buddy' dumping me. So yeah he treated me like crap he never returned my calls, never called me I always had to call him and when I did call 3/4 of the time he wouldn't pick up, he would never answer my texts. I chased him and I really really liked him. I mean, I cared about him so much.I was never in love with him though but given time I bet you I would be.I was too scared to tell him, when I did pluck up the courage to tell him I told him at the last minute, he was in a rush and I didn't get to explain to him properly how I felt. He told me to call him I did. He didn't pick up (as usual). I got the hint. I was really really sad about it after that. I really liked him. So then a couple days after that I sent him a 2 paragraph email telling him that I didn't appreciate him ignoring me. It expressed my anger and sadness about the way he treated me.So now it's been almost a month and I still can't stop thinking about him. He treated me like crap and yet I still want him and can't get over him. I've even got a boyfriend now but I still think about this guy.I don't understand why I still have feelings for him even though he treated me like something he scraped from his shoe.I want to get over him. I am also feeling really low about myself and quite sad.The rejection is the reason behind it. Can anyone give me some advice to make me feel better and to help me get over him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): NEVER CHEAPEN YOURSELF TO A MAN. That was quote that may mam used to always say to me and that has to apply to you. You have a BF and yet you keep thinking of this creep who only used you for one thing and moved on. Get him completely out of your mind, move on and make this new BF your centre of attraction. Give him a dream time. Best wishes.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much anon & blackcoffee. You have both really helped me.
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reader, blackcoffee +, writes (9 November 2006):
Hard but true. Once you affer your services to a man as a sex buddy or shag friend, he will never view you as a relationship potential. Men are funny that way. I hope your current boyfriend is not a sex buddy and do not tell him about the other guy. Best say you were in a relationship that did not work out. Good luck. Forget the loser. Once the lust has gone he is gone and good riddance to him. He probably has a new vivtim lined up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2006): I remember you writing about this.
He DID treat you without any consideration or respect. Didn't care about your feelings and was just using you for sex.
You need to think about that, but even MORE, think about how you are worth much, much more than that! You deserve to be in a relationship with a man who will treat you well, respect you and act like a gentleman. Keep telling yourself that, over and over.
Concentrate on your new boyfriend and how you can enjoy being with him and making one another happy.
Good luck!
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