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Can't climax with my boyfriend

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Question - (10 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *lexroliepolie writes:

I have always been able to masturbate and climax, but with my boyfriend I can't. It's extremely odd because he's very good at what he does and he turns me on like no one ever has been able to. We don't have sex, but we do oral/hands and all that. Any tips on maybe how I can have an orgasm? It's a broad subject, I suppose, but if anyone has ideas, they're much appreciated.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

This might sound a little weird, but have your boyfriend kinda make-out with your ear. It turns me on sooo bad!!! And when he fingers you, hopefully he doesnt just go in and out, its good if he kinda wiggles his fingers around. Ha, yeh this is kinda weird to talk about but i hope it helped.

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A female reader, superdolly United Kingdom +, writes (10 June 2009):

how about you rub your clit and he gives u oral at the same time reli works for me, i was with my boyfriend for 3 months before i let myself go like mentally cause he was amazing at what he was doing i just couldn't cum cause i didn't feel comfy and now im cuming like more than 20 times not a joke! just let yourself go, as my boyfriend fingers me he talks dirty to me really works for me you could try that i know i always felt pressured into cuming quickly just tell your boyfriend everything he's doing is amazing but its going to take you longer to cum.

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