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writes: Around 6 months ago i found texts from 2 girls my boyfriend works with and i completely freaked out, even though i have to admit the texts were completely innocent, if only a little bit flirty. One of the girls is a model and i cant let this fact go. I'm driving my boyfriend crazy because I don't feel good enough for him anymore. Even though i'm not too bad looking myself if i'm honest, i just can't bear to be around pretty girls because i think my boyfriend can do so much better than me. I really need to sort this out before i lose my boyfriend, but i don't know how i can stop feeling this way. Any ideas? xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): If he wants to be with you then he won't care about other girls, if he is thinking about other girls seriously then you shouldn't be with him. Just go out and about and have fun and if he leaves you because he sees someone else who he likes the look of, he didn't deserve you in the first place, relax and enjoy life you only get one chance at it
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): Listen - YOU are the one your boyfriend wants. That is why he chose you to be his girlfriend. He didn't chose the other girls and he doesn't want the other girls. He wanted you and you only. The other girls were only sending innocent friendly texts to him, so you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to worry about!!!!
If you are that worried about it have a good chat with your boyfriend and hopefully he can boost your confidence! Have you told him how you feel?? Perhaps ask him why he wanted you as his girlfriend?? I'm sure he'll understand.
Feel good about yourself. Be confident and be proud. Don't think about not being as good as other people (though I bet you are just as good - if not, better!!) but concentrate on your positive points. Stop worrying girl!!!
Chill.....
I hope you sort this out soon. x x x
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